Greetings from the Xyphokonic Order and Ordinance. This Juliar, we will discuss a selection of topics relating to or adjacent to the topic of Death. Today we will dive into what Ceremonial Death looks like in Xyphokonic Culture. Do Xyphoists have specific traditions when it comes to handling Death and loss of life? Is there a funeral process to follow? How do burials work? Let us discuss.
The ceremonial actions taken after the Death of a mortal in Xyphoist Practice can vary to some degree from what many would consider standard practice. In general, preparation of the remains in most modern societies include the embalming process or cremation of the remains. Xyphoist Philosophy doesn’t explicitly state that there is any set customs that one MUST do with the remains of a dead mortal, only that the remains and the Remembrance be shown basic care and respect for the existence of said Death. As such, the desecration of remains is not a condoned action by the Ordinance; adding to, the standard options of embalming, casket funeral proceedings, and normal burial are acceptable if the recently deceased had willed it so before Death or the next of kin has agreed to this. Cremation is also acceptable.
However, Xyphoist Practice does have Xyphokonic-specific options for Ceremony regarding Death, and some customs are specific to one’s Descending Spirituality. A Xyphoist-specific custom is for the remains of a deceased mortal to be stored in a Resting Hall of a Xyphoist House of Worship—especially in a Zhourghei Temple. Some Xyphoist Houses will have a basement segment that functions as a mass ornate mausoleum for all Xyphoites who wish to be placed there in their Death. Each deceased mortal will get their own individual chamber for their remains, with chambers being the size of a casket to smaller chambers for urns if desired. The Chamber door will be engraved with a plaque with the full name, dates of life, and a special message on it—similar to a gravestone. The chambers are then locked and secured by the staff of the House to ensure no grave robbery takes place. The highest-ranking Vuetenexian of any said House shall hold a skeleton key to all chambers, and only 1 individual key will be created for each individual chamber, which will be given to the most trusted family or friend of the deceased; family and friends can come to the Resting Hall to visit the Chamber and decorate it if desired during House open hours and with the approval of House officials.
Outside of the option to use the Resting Hall, some Xyphozons will have their own individual customs that those of that Xyphozon can apply in their Ceremonial Deaths. For example, Nakndsian Xyphoites may want to be buried among flowers or have their remains cremated and mixed with wildflower seeds. Those of the Carneiyean or Kyaius Xyphozons, prone to light, may have candles lit in their funerals to signify the power of Light. Vuetenexian Xyphoites, in the past, have had a very ornate tradition of having the flesh removed from their remains to expose only the skeleton; following, the skeleton is painted with glossy golden paint or, if one were to be willing to pay for it, adorned with authentic gold. After, the skeleton will be dressed in a black sild cloak and a purple jewel will be embedded in the skull of the skeleton. This very ornate custom was crafted to emulate the likeness of Lord Vuetenexzyei and the Angels of Death, who are seen as golden skeletons in black robes with a violet jewel embedded in the forehead. Now, none of these are required practices, but the most devote of Xyphoites may wish to partake in such customs that pay homage to their Descending Spirituality, Xyphozon, and Lord of Watching.
The purpose of Ceremonial Death is to both acknowledge the Eternal Reality of Death while also respecting the Remembrance and remains of the deceased, and while there is no required option for how to do this, Xyphoist Traditions offer a variety of ways to pay a final respect and devotion to the Order and one’s given Descending Spirituality while leaving those loved ones still alive with a Remembrance enshrined in Ceremony.
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